Men’s Character Audit For Leadership

Leaders have discovered that godly character is critical to effective ministry. However, no one is perfect. Along with their strengths, people have weaknesses and flaws. This character assessment will help men determine their character strengths and weaknesses so they know where they are strong and where they need to develop. The characteristics are found in 1 Timothy 3:1–7 and Titus 1:6–9.

Directions: Circle the number that best represents how you rate yourself in each area.

1. I am “above reproach.” I have a good reputation among people in general. I have done nothing that someone could use as an accusation against me.

2. I am the “husband of one wife.” If married, I not only have one wife, but I am also not physically or mentally promiscuous because I am focused only on her.

3. I am “temperate.” I am well-balanced. I do not abuse my freedom in Christ. I am not excessive or given to extremes.

4. I am “sensible.” I show good judgment in life and have a proper perspective regarding my abilities and who I am (humble).

5. I am “respectable.” I conduct my life in an honorable way, and people have and show respect for me.

6. I am “hospitable.” I use my residence as a place to serve and minister to Christians and non-Christians alike.

7. I am “able to teach.” When I teach the Bible, I show an aptitude for handling the Scriptures with reasonable skill.

8. I am “not given to drunkenness.” I conduct every area of my life in moderation.

9. I am “not violent.” I am under control. I do not lose control to the point that I strike other people or cause damage to their property.

10. I am “gentle.” I am a kind, meek (not weak), forbearing person who does not insist on my rights or resort to violence.

11. I am “not quarrelsome.” I am an uncontentious peacemaker who avoids hostile situations with people.

12. I am “not a lover of money.” I am not in ministry for financial gain, but I seek first His righteousness, knowing that God will supply my needs.

13. I “manage my family well.” If I am married and have a family, my children are believers who obey me with respect. People do not think of or accuse them of being wild or disobedient.

14. I am “not a recent convert.” I am not a new Christian who is struggling with pride and conceit.

15. I have “a good reputation with outsiders.” Though unsaved people may not agree with my religious convictions, they still respect me as a person.

16. I am “not overbearing.” I am not self-willed, stubborn, or arrogant.

17. I am “not quick-tempered.” I am not an angry person, and I do not lose my temper quickly and easily.

18. I am “not given to drunkenness.” I do not get drunk nor am I addicted to alcoholic beverages.

19. I am “not pursuing dishonest gain.” I am not fond of or involved in any wrongful practices that result in fraudulent gain.

20. I “love what is good.” I love what honors God.

22. I am “upright.” I live in accordance with the laws of God and man.

23. I am “holy.” I am a devout person, whose life is generally pleasing to God.

24. I “hold firmly to the faith.” I understand, hold to, and attempt to conserve God’s truth. I also encourage others while refuting those who oppose the truth.

After completing this character assessment, note the characteristics with the lowest rating (a 4 or below). These are the character goals you need to work on most.

Aubrey Malphurs, Dallas, Texas, is on the faculty at Dallas Theological Seminary in the pastoral ministries department. He has also authored numerous books. You can contact him at the Malphurs Group, a training and consulting ministry.